Forks in the Heart
We are faced with choices every day, carrying a range of impact on our lives, from low (do I want to stop for coffee this morning?) to very high (should I accept this job transfer out of state?). Every decision that we make, regardless of its level of impact, is a fork in the road for us, each decision will put us on a unique path that an alternative decision would not have.
And then there are the forks in the heart. This occurs when presented with a choice that involves your heart when you don’t know what to do. Many choices might cause a stress-related reaction, but forks in the heart cause a very unique emotional and physical reaction, far greater then other types of choices -- everything stops – the world stops turning, time stands still, your breath is suspended. The entire time you are making your decision, choosing your path, there is an arrow piercing your heart. And each time you look back at that fork in your heart to wonder “did I take the right path?” the arrow twists, ever so slightly.
There are no caution signs for forks in the heart -- navigation can be risky, fun, humiliating, exhilarating, painful, exciting -- Good luck!
And then there are the forks in the heart. This occurs when presented with a choice that involves your heart when you don’t know what to do. Many choices might cause a stress-related reaction, but forks in the heart cause a very unique emotional and physical reaction, far greater then other types of choices -- everything stops – the world stops turning, time stands still, your breath is suspended. The entire time you are making your decision, choosing your path, there is an arrow piercing your heart. And each time you look back at that fork in your heart to wonder “did I take the right path?” the arrow twists, ever so slightly.
There are no caution signs for forks in the heart -- navigation can be risky, fun, humiliating, exhilarating, painful, exciting -- Good luck!
posted by 10-8-ious | 12:33 AM
5 Comments:
Sounds like someone has choices to make.
well, thanks, but this really wasn't a cry for help -- just an observation. Some forks in the heart are pretty inconsiquential in the big picture, but they are still forks.
The big picture, from a personal perspective, is usually what is important to you at the moment. To stay grounded, we must constantly evaluate whether or not we are obsessed with something trivial. Not easy for any of us as emotions often get in the way.
But remember forks are also used hold the ham while you slice it into thin managable slices that are easier to digest. (ok that was corny but I couldn't resist).
If you come to a fork in the road . . . take it.
Yoigi Berra
okay Microe (oh wise one) this one is getting posted on the fridge AND on my desk -
"To stay grounded, we must constantly evaluate whether or not we are obsessed with something trivial."
Words of wisdom! Grounded should be everyone's goal!
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